10 Things to Let Go Of Before 2020

Posted by Leanna 09/12/2019 0 Comment(s)


How are you feeling about 2020? It sounds like it should be a milestone year doesn’t it, one that we should look back on in years to come and think, ‘yes, that’s the year that I finally…

But before you get started on those incredible plans whirling around in your head, let’s take some time to let go of any mental and physical baggage that could slow us down along the way.

I’ve made a list of the most common things that hold us back and I can hold my hand up to knowing them all a little too well at times! But, we live and learn. Take a wander through the list and see which ones strike a chord with you.

SELF CRITICISM
It’s time to stop your inner critic from running the show! It’s not easy to follow your dreams and create happiness without getting this under control. How? Start by observing it; when does it appear and what does it say? Most of us find that it shouts something at us that stems from our childhoods. When you hear it, imagine that it has a volume control button and slowly turn it down - helping the voice seem further and further away. Then replace the criticism with kindness; I like to use a positive affirmation but a mantra or quote works just as well. New to positive affirmations? Read more about them here.

TOXIC PEOPLE
Most of us know at least one person who falls into this category.  It can seem harsh to distance yourself from someone in your life, especially if they are a family member.  But if they harbour negativity, they aren’t doing you any good.  Let them go with good grace; you’ll be surprised at the changes you notice in your state of mind once they are gone. 

REGRETS
Regret is such a destructive power.  Left to fester it creates negativity and stops you from moving forward.  Healing the wounds of regret can often be achieved through forgiveness work. I’ve done some of this work myself and I know that it can be a challenge, please don’t face it alone if you feel that the guidance of  a therapist or healer would be helpful.

PHYSICAL CLUTTER 
Clutter creates stagnant energy which isn’t conducive to a fresh start, and so a good declutter is a great place to begin.  Avoid feeling overwhelmed by taking it one room, or cupboard at a time.  Let go of everything that no longer serves you; please donate anything that you can because most things can often create happiness for someone else.

FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
Yes, I’m sure we’d all love someone to reassure us that it’s all going to work out great but let’s be honest...it’s not going to happen! We’re here to explore and learn as we go and sometimes that means making a few mistakes along the way. Enjoy every moment as it comes and choose to live in the present; it can take some practice but in time you’ll feel the fear begin to fade while happiness fills the space it leaves behind in your heart and mind.   

FRUSTRATION
Maybe things haven’t progressed as much as you’d hoped this year and it’s left you feeling frustrated? Try your best to reframe it in a more positive way and look for the lessons, they’re usually there if you look hard enough.  Then, take a few deep breaths before starting on a new plan of action to get things moving in the right direction.     

COMPARISON 
Do you find you compare yourself to others a little too often? It’s so easy to do. But, it’s a habit that can easily spiral out of control and it leaves you in a constant state of dissatisfaction.  Let’s be honest, most of the time you’re only seeing someone else’s life from the outside and you can’t truly use that as a measure anyway.  Comparison is a drain on your energy. Break the habit by taking more time to focus inwards and create a daily gratitude practice to remind yourself of all that you are blessed with. Here are some tips for cultivating a gratitude mindset.

OTHERS EXPECTATIONS
Feeling the pressure of others expectations places a heavy burden on our hearts and minds. Some people carry them for a lifetime before even realising that they’ve been holding them back. Taking time to acknowledge them can be life changing but the magic lies in being able to let them go. Some people can do this overnight and for some it’s quite a process; be gentle with yourself and take care not to express blame. Forgiving and letting go is the kindest thing that you can do for yourself and your future.     

DOING TOO MUCH
Let this year be the one that you find more time for yourself; to explore a creative passion, follow a dream or take better care of your body, mind and spirit. Most of us have a tendency to over commit to projects and say yes to things that we really don’t want to do. This year try saying no a little more often (here are a few tips) and create space for the things that make you happy.

PROCRASTINATION
A project that needs finishing, an awkward conversation we need to have with someone, a dentist’s appointment… we all put things off from time to time. But we also feel a great sense of relief when we tick off those things, don’t we? Start as you mean to go on and try to leave procrastination behind this year.

Letting go of the energetic and physical baggage that holds us back, makes it so much easier to follow our dreams.  My advice as always is to be gentle with yourself and remember every step forward counts - no matter how small.

It’s my hope that I’ve inspired you to take action that set you on a path to a healthy and happy new year.

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AUTHOR: LEANNA DOOLIN

Co – Founder of holistic skincare brand, Pure Thoughts and advocate for women finding pause in their day to breathe deeply, give thanks and reconnect to what matters. Loves early mornings, dogs and books that you can’t put down.

 

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